We always wonder that only things gets dent as like we see everytime. But, that's not true even sometimes in our relationship also we get dent. If, we get dent on things they can be repaired easily. But, once we get a dent in our relationship that is something hard to get off.
Like everyday at early morning I was having a coffee and was deep in thinking when suddenly my mobile beeped so I picked and saw a message from my friend, not only a friend, a very good friend whom I know we had shared a real good friendship it was her message stating 'good morning ' so I also replied 'good morning'. But than I starting reading our previous conversation and I just only saw this
She:- gm
Me:- good morning
She:-good night
Me:-good night
that's all I really felt very bad I wonder what happen to that conversation which we used to have 24hrs. Then I remember there was some misunderstandings which had took place but it was sorted out immediately as it took place. But, than I thought if it had sorted out than why these things are taking place like we hardly talk to each other. So, I was thinking that such stupid misunderstanding which sometimes takes place without even knowing can do such a harm between two people. I think that in every relationship misunderstanding takes place things happen but seriously that doesn't mean that you should forget all the best things you had with that person. Yeah, sometimes there are certain things which we cannot forget and if it's really very bad or where you see that it is done purposely from the other person than yes you should not forgive or forget whatever you want to do. But, when you know that the other person had done by mistakely and you know that he/she won't be doing anything like this than why to punish both of you?
Nowadays, I think people only remember what wrong the other person had done rather than how many right thing he/she has done. Don't you think all these things are dent in a relationship? And sometimes, this dent becomes so big that after a period of time it becomes useless to repair. Because, after repairing also it can be seen that there was a dent. And that scratch remains forever.
Like everyday at early morning I was having a coffee and was deep in thinking when suddenly my mobile beeped so I picked and saw a message from my friend, not only a friend, a very good friend whom I know we had shared a real good friendship it was her message stating 'good morning ' so I also replied 'good morning'. But than I starting reading our previous conversation and I just only saw this
She:- gm
Me:- good morning
She:-good night
Me:-good night
that's all I really felt very bad I wonder what happen to that conversation which we used to have 24hrs. Then I remember there was some misunderstandings which had took place but it was sorted out immediately as it took place. But, than I thought if it had sorted out than why these things are taking place like we hardly talk to each other. So, I was thinking that such stupid misunderstanding which sometimes takes place without even knowing can do such a harm between two people. I think that in every relationship misunderstanding takes place things happen but seriously that doesn't mean that you should forget all the best things you had with that person. Yeah, sometimes there are certain things which we cannot forget and if it's really very bad or where you see that it is done purposely from the other person than yes you should not forgive or forget whatever you want to do. But, when you know that the other person had done by mistakely and you know that he/she won't be doing anything like this than why to punish both of you?
Nowadays, I think people only remember what wrong the other person had done rather than how many right thing he/she has done. Don't you think all these things are dent in a relationship? And sometimes, this dent becomes so big that after a period of time it becomes useless to repair. Because, after repairing also it can be seen that there was a dent. And that scratch remains forever.
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